Today I realised, the light bulb moment, shit … I have been looking at this subject since I was 14 years old! Over 35 years, the same fucking question!
I was always looking for something new to integrate into my life that would create the magic, and put in front of me all I desired.
From hypnosis, to NLP, subliminal programming, visualisation and using advanced learning techniques to pass exams, I was a seeker.
I always sought more in life, knew there was more, and that I just needed to find that magic programme, that series of things, and all would be well. Like Neo in the matrix, I was lost, I am a seeker. Only I wish I could fight like him too!
The seeking worked (to a degree)
Having flunked all my A level exams, much to my surprise, I was pretty deflated (to say the least). Forecast 4 A grades (this is the top level in the UK higher education system), to come out with 4 fails, was pretty astounding! WTF – no university, no job, no future … SHIT.
I went off the rails a bit (correction … a lot!!), took time out, and then started thinking, asking myself the question “ok, so what do I need to do here?”
I started searching for self-help programmes (and this was all before the internet had become widely available) – Nightingale Conant, Napoleon Hill, Brian Tracy to name but a few, and then Accelerated Learning 2000, a book of suggested advanced learning methods.
The use of music, at a certain frequency to switch the brain on, affirmations to repeat, hypnosis before bedtime, visualisation of the future I desired and so on.
I did it all. And to its great credit, and with some hard work, I passed my degree with the top honour possible, passed all professional exams within record time, as well as gaining 4 world prizes for best in world across 2 different sets of modalities.
But the search for self-development went on – meditation, visualisation, Law of Attraction, the Secret, you name it, I have looked at it, bought the programs, and kept on searching. There must be something more? Wish I had met Morpheus then.
In fact, I met something even more powerful than Morpheus, I met me!
Shown to me by a very special man (my best male friend), and a very special system, Aura-Soma.
In the last few months, with a seemingly perfect life of everything I desire, the question keeps coming up “what more can I create for now and for the future?”
I don’t know about you, but my Jiminy Cricket is in overdrive these days, my mind over anal-ising (I love the fact that the word analyse effectively means ass talk!) things to the extent that no sleep, anxiety, stress, and worst of all, no creation, no joy, and walking further away from my creative desires.
Having sat down and demanded of me that things need to change, it’s funny how the universe responds, and how quickly too.
I am now being bombarded by different messages, from all sorts of different places and spaces, all coming to my awareness. Different but the same message underlying it all.
So what have I become re-aware of this time?
Firstly, the Universe (existence, God, whatever you wish to term it) is here for us and really really really wants to help us. We just need to ask for help, and be clear of what we truly desire. Our brain (remember anal-ising comes from the brain!) is confused. It is trying to cope with so much information; it blows its CPU very quickly, and then disguises the fact by pumping us full of pseudo sensible misinformation, that we buy as real and correct. Think about it, we are the only Being on earth that ‘over thinks’, and look at the stress and drama that causes us. Animals don’t think, they be, mushrooms don’t think, they be. Dolphins which are far more highly evolved than us don’t think, they create magic via play. Yet we think. As a dear friend of mine always says “if you’re thinking your stinking!”. I take that to translate as, if you think, you are in the shit!
When we ask the universe, we need to be clear, as the universe doesn’t deal with thought vibrations, it deals with ‘being‘ vibrations.
You will get what you vibrate – so if you want to change what’s coming to you, change that vibration!
Example – many people have dabbled with the Law of Attraction / the Secret, and in the end, leave it, as they don’t get what they want! That’s not true – you always get what you want, its maybe just you don’t know what your Being (subconscious mind) is asking for.
Listening to an audio clip from Abraham, its clear, to get what we desire, we need to behave as though we already have it (and create that vibration) – focus on what we desire, rather than what we need to change.
Now this for me is the underlying energy that most of these systems operate from – it’s like a universal true-ism – your vibration needs to match what you desire. As the universe doesn’t judge what we are vibrating, it merely matches us, and gives us as much of what we are as we wish for!
So, if you are getting shit (I know myself its difficult to accept I must be asking for it on some level), as a universal principle, like attracts like, then its fact – you are creating your shit! And better yet, you are choosing it. Best of all, you can change it.
If you don’t like what you are getting it, the Universe is kind – it will change what it gives you, when you change your vibration.
Where does this vibration come from – it’s from your being, its conscious maybe, more likely unconscious, but what is in front of you is the confirmation of the energy you are putting out in the world.
I recently visited a very awesome man in the French Pyrenees, who I sat with for an hour or so, and talked about life. He was outstanding, in what he knew about me (having never met him before), and his words of wisdom.
“Be at peace, be happy, be what you desire, and most of all be in your centre, (ancient martial arts always practice this), and know that all you seek is already actualising.
You are the product of all that has come before, and today you can create the future you desire, by being happy, at peace with yourself, and trusting the universe has your back.
You don’t need to do anything, you just need to relax and be truly you.”
This took me off my feet – simplicity in its message, and confirmation of what I knew, but the question is, is it what I already AM?!
The key – the reason many times these things we seek to help us don’t work, is we know about it, but do we BE it? Does the vibration we emit reflect what we truly desire?
As the Thich Nhat Han says, “happiness is the way; there is no way to happiness”
This mind fuck has been with me for a long time.
Now I gradually get the message the Universe wants us all to hear.
This is my view:
You are so loved as the imperfectly perfect you, that you are. Be you, be content, be with yourself, for all you seek you already are. All you desire is waiting to come to you. You are the key; you have the possibilities to access infinite creation.
Relax with the awesomeness you are, for you created all you are now, and you create all you will be in the next breath, the next week, the next 100 lifetimes.
Whatever you desire, we will create with you. Everything is possible. Let us match your vibration of what is your real desire, and then allow the flow to come to you. This flow is infinite, and ever changeable. You are the master controller of your existence.
We are here to support you in your choices, and to co-create with you all that you choose.
I know some of you are now reading this thinking this guy has lost the plot! Does he mean we don’t have to do anything to get what we want?
“Oh I want a new car, a new job, and new partner, and have for years, but this bullshit doesn’t work.”
Just consider the energy here! If we are all vibrating, and the vibration you are emitting is that’s its bullshit, then no wonder it doesn’t work for you. What if you changed your vibration, to one where you are already sensing what the new car smells like, what the new job is, and how the new partner you desire feels like laying next to you. Watch Dan Pena, and see how he creates his magic. He says very clearly anyone can do it, if they truly want it.
It works – spunki wife did this process to pull me into her life, and me too with her. We use it to create for our future now, and it’s easy, once you truly begin.
But don’t take my word for it – maybe read Napoleon Hill, as he knew the secret long ago. Maybe read The Secret, A Course in Miracles, or anything by Wayne Dyer. Watch all of Dan Pena’s free videos. Take time out to watch the interviews with inspirational athletes like Arnold Schwarzenegger, Dorian Yates, Michael Schumacher, and Bruce Lee, and how they created the life they have now. Hard work for sure, but the visualisation of what they desired, and how it came to be.
The underlying theme is to follow what makes you truly vibrationally happy, and by doing so, watch what the Universe will create for you in response. Life can change easily, if we trust in the universe, allow ourselves to receive what it wishes to offer us, and don’t set time limits or hows on it.
When we set out what we truly desire, and match our demand for this with our vibration, watch the miracles happen.
This demand needs to be without expectation of what will show up, or how. The Universe is far more powerful than our human computers! So to try and figure out how, will only slow or stop the process, as our vibration gets contaminated by Jiminy Cricket and his mind.
If you don’t like what you are getting, change your vibration. Be happy, be content, and be grateful for all that is now, and make the demand of you, to change what you are getting to what you truly desire.
Take baby steps, and watch the miracles of your life unfold in front of you.
Remember, you are an inspiration – please share your inspirations with others on Be Spunki, because your story will inspire others to greatness too. What If you can be the change that inspires someone else to change their lives for the greater?
Until next time,
Shaun, co-founder of Be Spunki