WHAT IS THE ONE THING THAT YOU DO, THAT HELPS YOU BE THE BEST YOU CAN BE?
Be the best you can be is really not one thing deal. It is choosing daily to grow mentally, physically, spiritually. In our lives, there is nothing so important as seeking out and pursuing opportunities to grow as a person. Just as any other living creature, our purpose in life is to contribute and to continually move toward becoming our best selves. It’s not whether we need to be better, but whether we choose to be better. Becoming a better person means changing habits, taking some risks and thinking differently in the future. What an exciting challenge, but it can be most difficult things for most people. The personal grow process is never ends and it is very rewarding.
I always say be the type of person you want to hang out with.
Do you want to be around someone who is positive, smart, trustworthy, uplifting, loving, kind? Then you have to become that person first. Demand from yourself more than any other person will and surround yourself with people who have higher standard for themselves too. I think we should cultivate relationships with others who LIFT US UP. Surround ourselves with those who reflect the person we want to be. Choose friends who you are proud to know, people you admire, who love and respect you – people who make your day a little brighter simply by being in it and those who will be there for you when you need them. Relationships should help you, not hurt you. After all, life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you. When you free yourself from negative people, you free yourself to be YOU – and being YOU is the only way to truly live.
I have a desire for knowledge, experience and growth.
I always have been into reading books, watch documentaries, go to personal growth seminars, traveling it is definitely helping me to grow, expand my mind, change some life perspectives, but never my core values. I live my life with passion and gratitude for every day. There are some days I may not feel my best, but even on those days there are always things to be grateful for.
I choose love over hate.
I think love it universal language and this is all there is. If we want to build connection with others we must come from love first of all. So, share the LOVE, make people feel good; they will remember how you made them feel. Supporting, guiding, and making contributions to other people is one of life’s greatest rewards. In order to get, you have to give.
I try to volunteer as much as I can.
Not everything has to be measured in money. I spend hours every day writing the best content and giving it away for free, without asking anything back in return from the readers. I cook for homeless, I do some work with orphans. With volunteer work we may be giving our labor for free, but this is time spent that is filled with meaning. Don’t underestimate the kind of difference you can make in others’ lives with just a few hours of work.
I always have the best intentions for others.
Being compassionate and kind is so important, especially in today’s world many ego driven and self-centered people more concerned with their own image than to make a positive impact on others. I always look out for opportunities where I can help others. I think we shouldn’t be caught up in our own space – instead, look outwards and see if there’s anything you can do for others. Even the simplest things, like helping someone carry their belongings, is very much appreciated by others.
I appreciate authenticity and I’m true to myself self.
I stand up for the things I believe in; outspoken and I say what’s on my mind. We shouldn’t feel the need to censor our words because we are afraid of what others think. Be confident in who you are and what you do. There’s no reason not to be. These include being able to align yourself with your values and beliefs, establish your identity, build courage, create boundaries, find focus and direction. In this crazy world that’s trying to make you like everyone else, find the courage to keep being your awesome self.
Life is an adventure and I chose to be courageous; and look straight in the eyes of my fears.
To overcome your fears is one of the bravest things you can do. Is there anything you’re scared of? We often allow our fears to manage our lives, and as soon as some experiences in life trigs our fears we run or pull away, get closed off instead of understand that the fear is mental. – It’s only what you perceive it to be in your mind, not more than that. If you challenge that which you’re afraid of, you’ll realize there’s nothing to be scared of at all, because there is nothing to lose. We entered this world with nothing, but our consciousness, we’ll leave the world with the same consciousness. BTW if your fears being trigged it means that something important is happening for you and you need it to happened so you will live a better life, or have better relationship etc. Don’t live in fear. Boldly pursue your dreams. Boldly act on your instincts. Boldly create the life you’ve always wanted. And sometimes it may not turn out the way you planed or wanted to be, but the person you will become is the most amazing gift of all.